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Five Minutes That Belong Only to Me

Hand holding a wooden dry body brush with natural bristles against the leg
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My mornings used to be a race. Alarm, coffee, messages, clothes, out the door. My body was something I carried to work, not something I took care of.

The change didn't come from a big decision. It came from a small wooden brush on the edge of the bathtub.

1. Slowing Down on Purpose

Dry brushing is exactly what it sounds like: before the shower, on dry skin, you brush your body with long, gentle strokes, usually starting from the feet and moving upward. It takes five minutes. The bristles feel firm at first and then pleasantly awake, and the skin feels smoother afterwards.

But honestly, what I love most is not what it does for my skin. It is that for five minutes, I am paying attention to myself instead of rushing past. Nobody needs me. No screen is on. Just slow strokes, and breathing.

2. Part of a Softer Morning

After the brush, a warm shower, and then my soft robe for the first coffee (I wrote about it in the spa robe story). It is a small chain of kind things, and it changes the mood of the whole day. On rushed mornings I skip it, and that's fine too. The ritual is there when I can give it time.

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A natural bristle dry body brush with a wooden handle, for a few slow minutes before the shower.

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3. Honest Notes

You will read many big promises about dry brushing online. I don't make them: for me it is simply a gentle exfoliation and a calming routine. Brush lightly, especially at first; red, irritated skin means too much pressure. Avoid the face, broken skin, sunburn or any irritated areas, and if you have a skin condition, ask your doctor first. Natural bristles also need to dry well between uses.

4. How to Choose

5. Questions People Ask

Wet or dry skin? Dry. The bristles work best on dry skin before the shower.

How do I clean the brush? Shake it out after each use, and every week or two wash the bristles with mild soap and let the brush dry with the bristles facing down.

Taking care of yourself doesn't have to start big. Sometimes it starts with five minutes and a wooden brush.